Question 1

When should I start planning a Filipino wedding?

Accepted Answer

Start at least 12 months before your wedding date — especially if you want a sought-after venue on a peak date (November–February is peak wedding season in the Philippines). Key suppliers like photographers, videographers, and professional event hosts typically book 6–12 months in advance. Starting a year out gives you time to secure your top choices without pressure.

Question 2

What are the 13 coins (arrhae) in a Filipino wedding?

Accepted Answer

The arrhae (13 coins) is a traditional Filipino Catholic wedding ritual where the groom gives 13 coins to the bride, symbolising his commitment to provide for her and to share everything he has. The coins are typically blessed by the priest and presented on a small tray or pillow by a designated coin sponsor (ninong or ninang de arrhae).

Question 3

Do I need both a wedding coordinator and an event host?

Accepted Answer

Yes — they have distinct and complementary roles. A wedding coordinator manages logistics: supplier arrivals, venue setup, timeline adherence, and behind-the-scenes troubleshooting. An event host (emcee) manages the guest experience: narrating the program, introducing each segment, making announcements, and setting the emotional tone of your reception. For the smoothest possible event, you need both.

Question 4

Is my checklist progress saved automatically?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Your progress is saved automatically to your browser's local storage each time you check an item, so you can close the page and return later without losing your progress. Note that clearing your browser history/data or switching to a different device will reset your checklist.

Question 5

What is the candle, cord, and veil ceremony in a Filipino wedding?

Accepted Answer

These are three symbolic rituals unique to Filipino Catholic weddings. The unity candle represents the joining of two families. The veil (belo) is draped over the bride's head and groom's shoulder, symbolising two individuals clothed as one. The cord (yugal) is looped in a figure-eight around both, symbolising everlasting union. Each ritual requires designated sponsors (ninongs and ninangs) who participate in the ceremony.

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